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The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph Kindle Edition
by Ryan Holiday (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
4.7 out of 5 stars
Book 1 of 3: The Way, the Enemy and the Key
#1 Best Seller in Philosophy Movements
#1 Wall Street Journal Bestseller
The Obstacle is the Way has been made into a classic cult that is loved by people from all over the globe who employ its advice to be more successful in anything they choose to do.
Many of its admirers include a former governor and film actor (Arnold Schwarzenegger) as well as a hip hop iconic (LL Cool J) as well as an Irish tennis professional (James McGee) and the NBC sportscaster (Michele Tafoya) and players and coaches of the winning teams such as those of the New England Patriots, Seattle Seahawks, Chicago Cubs, and the University of Texas men's basketball team.
The book's inspiration comes from stoicism, a Greek idea of enduring hardship or hardship through perseverance and resiliency. Stoics are focused on what they have the power to manage, let the rest go and turn each new challenge in a chance to become stronger, better, and more resilient. The way Marcus Aurelius put it nearly two centuries in the past: "The impediment to action can be a catalyst for actions. What blocks the way is what becomes the way."
Ryan Holiday shows us how the most successful individuals throughout history -- from John D. Rockefeller to Amelia Earhart to Ulysses S. Grant to Steve Jobs --have utilized stoicism in overcoming challenging or even impossible circumstances. The way they applied these values ultimately was more important than their inherent talent, intelligence or luck.
If you're struggling with frustration and demoralized or in an unproductive cycle This book will assist you in turning your struggles into the greatest advantages. It will inspire you with a myriad of authentic stories about the most famous people of every era and age.
A philosophy I can apply to every hour of my waking life
Reviewed in the United States on June 3, 2017
I looooove this book. The ideas aren't entirely new. It's more like the author has taken the most important aspects of wisdom and compiled it into effective examples and phrases that really hit home. I've underlined every page. It's really helped me be less reactive, more intentional, more disciplined, and even keel. I wish the book was longer and that there were more authors writing about this philosophy. The premise is simple: focus your energy on the the things that are in your power to change, and don't waste your energy on emotional turbulence or hyper-analyzing everything. The reason this philosophy has the power to inspire so many more books is that it can apply to every aspect of our life: how and whether we muster the courage to make a change, how we drive our cars, how we schedule our days, what we choose to eat, how and whether we resolve conflicts.
One of the most helpful applications of this book is changing the ways I interact with my family of origin. My parents and siblings are anxious, doubtful, and pessimistic. For the most part, I am not. However, for years I've struggled with my own reactions to being around them. Every family holiday or vacation caused me to regress to adolescence, and after each event, it took weeks for me to recover. Through this book, I realized that my reacting to their reactivity was totally ironic. I don't have to react to them. Once I became aware of this, it became a choice. Now, I can choose to see these family events as opportunities to feel grateful for my own equanimity. And when I do lose balance, I can be easy on myself, because I remember that new habits take a while to develop. I can also choose to remove myself from environments that aren't serving me.
Very empowering, very practical. Thank you, Ryan Holiday!
439 people found this helpful
Reviewed in the United States on December 3, 2017
One huge lesson Ryan has taught me is to not be too quick to prejudge the value of a book about life based on the author's age, an inherent bias I suppose a a lot of people my age has. I am 62 years old and believe that wisdom only comes with experience and education, and experience is a function of quality and quantity. It is rare to find someone in their early 30s with such insight into life. This book is excellent and has ignited in me the desire to learn more about Stoicism. I enthusiastically recommend this book.
Joe Junfola
85 people found this helpful
Outstanding. I used to have a practice. Each ...
Reviewed in the United States on December 9, 2016
Outstanding. I used to have a practice. Each year, at the end of the year, I would take about 20 minutes to write a list of all of the "bad" things that happened that year. Then, I would take the list outside, burn it and bury the ashes. Kind of a release from the burdens or pain that came from the tough times. They were over. I could move on. Now, I make the same list, but instead of burning it, I go back over the list and beside each "bad" thing, I write a positive development that came from it. I think about what I learned or how I worked through the challenge. This empowers me to actually appreciate and show gratitude for the tough things that happen. Positive change of mindset from reading this book. Thanks.
323 people found this helpful
Surprisingly worthy of reviews
Reviewed in the United States on May 16, 2016
The most actionable advice from a self-help book that I've seen. I don't know the motivations of the author, but it doesn't matter. So much usable material packed into one place...my version is highlighted and marked up and I open it up to a random page whenever I need some inspiration.
So many years, so much pop-psychobabble, yet the ancients had the most pragmatic approach all along. Makes sense, when you stop to think of how much harder and less predictable life was.
92 people found this helpful
Reviewed in the United States on September 10, 2017
I'm into self-improvement and optimization, and many of the podcasts I listened to have mentioned Ryan Holiday and his books, primarily this one and Ego is the Enemy. I have a lot of books on my shelf, but Ryan's writing truly stands out. The chapters are short, effective, and extremely well-written. It's actually entertaining to read this book, which consists of short stories that will genuinely change your mindset.
Most chapters are only 4-8 pages long, but they pack a punch. They are easy to read, but so thoughtful and packed with content that you can spend days just going over and absorbing the lessons from a single chapter. On the other hand, you can also read 100+ pages in one sitting, because it's truly hard to put down the book.
Usually books like this will feel boring - like you've already heard the subject hundreds of times and can anticipate what's coming next, leaving your mind to wander. Ryan's books are rare, instead they read like a hidden treasure, as the knowledge in the books is powerful, but easily read and applied. I've since ordered and read all of Ryan's books, and they are gold. Anytime I feel stuck in life, I know I can pick up this book and receive motivation and insight to keep conquering seemingly insurmountable challenges. Timeless and can be read again and again.
25 people found this helpful
Reviewed in the United States on August 4, 2017
I came across this book because I really enjoyed EGO IS THE ENEMY. As for being a broke college student with creativity that he wants to share. I figure I'd read something like this. Ryan's writing is simple and practical. This isn't meant to be read like a novel. It's a book where you could pick it up and find a chapter that seems to intrigue you at that moment and just go from there. I also follow his blog (i highly recommend it) he talks about how to take notes when reading a book (that explains the post it flags)
Review: "The Obstacle is the Way"
Reviewed in the United States on June 13, 2020
The Obstacle is the Way is the first of a three-book series on the philosophy of Marcus Aurelius and other Stoic philosophers. “Stoicism” has a bad name in modern times, but the name has been corrupted in a similar way to how the name “Puritan” has been corrupted. Stoicism is – in many ways – what we now call Cognitive Behavioral Training.
In this volume, Ryan Holiday introduces the reader to three wide themes of Stoic philosophy – and this is a practical and easy read – don’t worry.
The first theme is perception. In this, the Stoics said to look at your situation – what is happening – as objectively as you can. What is this really? Putting aside emotions and presuppositions – What do I actually have here, and can I turn it into a positive? (This is not positivity thinking but turning whatever is before you over – looking at it from every angle, understanding what is truly is and from what perspective it is good, bad, or neutral.)
Once you have an objective understanding of what is before you, you then ask what is in my power and what is not in my power? What can I change and what can’t I change?
The second theme is action. That is directed action. This is a planned action to remove the obstacle in front of you and/or to transform it into the way in which you want to go. You set you actions and keep doing more, because there is always more that can be done. That does not mean there is no rest – you need to take action to rest, as well.
“Persist in your efforts. Resist giving in to distractions, discouragements, or disorder” (80). Do your job and do it right.
The third theme is will. “Will is our internal power, which can never be affected by the outside world” (125). This means to “bear and forebear. Acknowledge the pain but trod onward in your task” (131). This is the process of saying, I will do this and then I will do this, and so forth until my goal is accomplished. There is no giving up.
It is also to accept that no matter how well we perceive, no matter what actions we plan, we may fail to achieve what we desire. The biggest realization to keep before us is that we will die – we are finite creatures. Eventually, no matter how well we perfect perception, action, and will, we die. It just is. It is something we must accept. We are not to be morbid about it, rather we accept it as truth.
In the end, if we perceive the obstacles rightly and considered what we can do and what we cant’t do, and then we set up a plan of action and act upon it, and we persist and will our way towards the goal, we will always be happy, because there is nothing more we can do. We will have done everything.
The book ends with an extensive “selected” bibliography and recommended reading list, as well as ways to get in contact with the author.
I am finding Stoicism to be helpful in working forward in my life. I am also using his book, The Daily Stoic, which are short primary readings and commentary, as a devotional. And I look forward to reading the other two books in the series.
[This review appears on my blog, my YouTube channel, Amazon.com, and Goodreads.com.]
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Reviewed in the United States on December 19, 2020
This is my fourth Ryan Holiday book that I have read, and I must admit this one is by far the best one. No surprise considering it was his first book in this series and came straight from the heart before book deals and contracts probably put him on a forced schedule to crank out some more. That usually hinders creativity. It’s like a band that comes out with an excellent first album, and then the rest are mediocre because the label putting deadlines takes away the creativity through corporate pressure. Anyway, this book was awesome! It has a lot of good, authentic, and genuine examples, both current and historical. The main focus is on how to use obstacles to our advantage. If I were to sum up the concept of this book in one phrase, it would be “Accept reality without accepting defeat.” I also bought a copy for my nephew and hope it helps him recenter and focus on a better path forward.
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A book for successful businessmen and academics
Reviewed in the United States on May 6, 2014
The Obstacle is the Way digs into how knowledge and reason are in fact the highest good, as well as how to stay indifferent to pleasure and pain and how to respond to the vicissitudes of fortune objectively. The key is to not let your emotions color your perception of the world.
Ryan not only provides a great review of stoicism, he does an excellent job at articulating exactly how this school of thought can be applied to any problems that you might be facing now as you try to advance your career or transition from academia into a new career. He also provides an ample number of takeaways in the book. The Obstacle is the Way goes beyond the philosophy of stoicism simply by making the philosophy actionable. Reading this book will make you take action. Rational action.
If you're looking to:
-Take your career to the next level by getting a promotion (even though someone else is standing in your way)
-Transition out of academia and into a new career to finally get paid what you're worth (even though you don't have any business connections)
-Quit your job and start your own business so you never have to work for anyone again (even though you don't know how to run a business)
...then this book is for you. The Obstacle is the Way is rooted in concrete, everlasting principles, not processes or fads that come and go with the wind. By reading this book, you will understand these principles and you will be able to make use of them to get what you want.
If you want to get ahead, the Obstacle is the Way is highly recommended.
35 people found this helpful
Reviewed in the United States on December 23, 2019
I started studying Stoicism by reading a smattering of books and articles. I’m new to the philosophy—though I have apparently a studied and practiced it all my life without realizing. What I never learned from what little I’ve looked into, this far, is this simple fact: Philosophy is action as much as thought.
This book showed that truth to me, and it’s hardly the only lesson to take away after reading. In fact, if I could recommend any book as a starting point for learning and incorporating the philosophy of Stoicism in your life, this is the one.
This guide is at once practical and deeply profound in its complexity. It’s easy to follow, even for a newcomer, and easy to incorporate into your mental lexicon and daily practice. Not simply a how-to, but a how-to-be.
I’ll return to this book again and again to remind myself of the lessons herein. But it also serves as a springboard for diving deeper into this philosophy, with reading lists and recommended reading, quotes from Stoic authors and biographical and historic examples that provide both inspiration and insight.
This is the book to read, either first or as soon as possible.
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In my Top Five most personally influential books ever
Reviewed in the United States on June 22, 2019
I rank The Obstacle Is the Way in my Top Four (maybe Five) favorite/most influential books (in my life) ever.
Two are The Bible, which I read a great deal (repeatedly) as a young adult and; Sapiens by Harari.
The historical overview of humankind Harari presents in Sapiens substantially changed my perspective on humanity.
"Obstacle" provides/provided me with understanding to put my life experiences in a new perspective and focus my outlook on all that I have and still want to accomplish in my life.
From the Bible, in the New Testament book of Ephesians 4:14-15a Christians are encouraged to "no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. 15Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow..."
Viewing all of life as a series of inevitable challenges and obstacles, if we play it right the obstacles are never the end of the road or ultimate finality. Before the inevitable death we all will face that is.
Further, insights in "Obstacle," make it dramatically easier to not be tossed about when facing life's uncertainties. Rather, one can steadily develop a vision for life and stay focused much more easily.
Oh, and M Scott Peck's The Road Less Traveled would also be at the top of that list. Peck's opening line in that book is, "Life is difficult." He goes on to explain that accepting that reality makes it so much easier to cope with the realities a person faces. Stephen Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People fits the category too.
I enthusiastically recommend The Obstacle is the Way.
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REALLY GREAT READ !! Great one to have in your collection.
Reviewed in the United States on May 4, 2020
This book is great, my cousin actually referred this book to me. This book is a great motivator, a great perspective on many things you probably are somewhat familiar with but never really invested too much time or thought into. Or maybe you just had a narrow point of view on the subject.
And the history in this book is genuinely interesting and informative, leading you to many more opportunities to seek knowledge, and learn to grow. This book really opens the mind and your awareness to the power being present, embracing the moment, and making the most and more out of everything. This is truly a great and well written, down to earth read. Always an interesting and educational experience through every sitting. If you’re all about truly and actively bettering yourself and your life this is a great book to have.
I will be lending this book to close family and friends.
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This book that changed my life
Reviewed in the United States on September 29, 2021
This book came highly recommended by my business coach. I was not looking forward to reading because i am not a reader and have not read a book in almost 17 years. But this book was life changing for me in many ways. Having no interest in reading this book was an easy read. I have read it cover to cover twice and listened to it 4 times on audible. I plan to reread at least yearly in the future. The book is a basically a beginners guide to stoicism which i never knew about but am not immersing myself in thanks to Ryan. I have since bought all his books and look forward to reading each and every one of them. Thank you Ryan for all that you have done and will continue to do in your writing, podcasts and daily stoic / daily dad emails. I have developed a routine centered around the philosophy, journaling and reading all thanks to you and the stoics!
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Reviewed in the United States on October 10, 2019
Some reviewers might say, "there's nothing new here." Maybe that's the case for some, and indeed, many of these concepts I've read about many times from different authors for years, but that's not the point. The point for me is that I always try to get a daily dose of positive in my head.
Again, this is worthwhile reading for me because I regularly read things that are uplifting and encouraging. Ryan Holiday does a good job at giving his own voice to these ideas.
I think this is a good book for beginners to these concepts, and it's also a good book to keep feeding the ideas to my head so that the importance of them doesn't wane.
Honestly, one other thing, I like the size of the book in my hands. My arms get tired holding up larger books but the size of this one is very easy to deal with.
Reviewed in the United States on June 7, 2020
I purchased this just before the Covid 19 crisis struck mynpart of the world, and as things went into lockdown, this book had a tremendous positive impact on how I dealt with it all. We've all heard the maxim "when all you have is lemons, make lemonade." This book goes deeply into the ways we can deal with seeminly insurmountable obstacles. This is not just philosophical theory, and there is no woo-woo nonsense. The author makes every idea here totally accessible and practical. You can readily apply these suggestions to your own life. I am grateful this book came along at a moment when I needed it, and I reccomend it to anyone who is seeking a new and constructive way to deal with life's inevitable difficulties.
Ageless Wisdom for Modern Times
Reviewed in the United States on July 12, 2019
This is the first time I've read from Holiday but I can easily see why his books are in such demand. His prose is factual, punctual, and yet still fun to read. He laid bare the facts without paying homage to himself or trying to sound as though he is far removed from the common layperson - as I have had experienced before.
Stoicism is a philosophy that seems to agree with my own, in that, I believe there is a balance to all. I've always been intrigued since my teens, but hesitated because it had been described in such a clinical, dull way, that I didn't feel right in going further. When I heard about this book from Tim Ferriss Show, I knew I had to try.
This is a win! Easily readable. Easily absorbable. Easily the right choice for the modern thinker. Thank you Tim. Thank you Ryan. Thank goodness they both have more content to devour.
Inspirational Stories Of How To Turn Turmoil Into Triumph
Reviewed in the United States on September 11, 2019
This is a small book filled with inspirational stories of people who faced different difficulties and adverse situations in life and managed to turn them to their advantage. People from all walks of life and periods of time are given to show that while all problems and difficulties are relative, there are certain issues that are universal when dealing with hardship and that no matter how difficult or grim the situation there is always action that can be taken that allows one to maintain one's dignity and core values. This book can be read straight through or picked up from time to time for inspiration. I highly recommend it!
The Way of Having a Swift Kick in the Ass...
Reviewed in the United States on April 17, 2015
I came across Ryan Holiday after seeing his name on both James Altucher's and Tim Ferriss' podcasts. I briefly looked into him and initially dismissed him due to his age. One uneventful evening I decided to listen to his podcast with Tim Ferriss. I was really impressed with the interview which, to my surprise, covered one of my favorite topics, Stoicism. Once I found out Ryan was a research assistant for one of my favorite authors, Robert Greene (Mastery, 48 Laws, Seduction), I knew reading The Obstacle is the Way would be a great use of time.
Obstacle is a 3 Act book with short and concise chapters that skillfully shows how philosophy is not only for white tower academics arguing over nuanced nonsense, but for men and women of action in today's uncertain and challenging economic and social environment. Drawing from the ideas of the Big 3 of Stoicism (Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and Seneca) who are all great men of history, Holiday, in the fashion of Robert Greene, uses historical stories and examples to make his points.
Stoicism has been a major influence on such great men as George Washington, Teddy Roosevelt, and Thomas Jefferson who all were active students and practitioners of the philosophy. It's essentially a philosophy of realizing there's much we can't control in the external world, but we can always control our reactions and subsequent actions to these outer events. Too often, we react from negative emotions which only compound a problem. Often our lens on the world is faulty due to wrong perceptions and thinking.
Stoicism gives us a new perspective on problems and hurdles in our life and flips what is often viewed as a negative and turns s*** into sugar. This is a philosophy that needs a resurgence and hopefully, books like The Obstacle is The Way, will generate ongoing enthusiasm for what is essentially a new OS on how to look at the world and how often our greatest setbacks/challenges can lead to great things. Through perceiving reality clearly, taking creative and consistent action, and having the humility, resilience, and flexibility to accept the outcome, many of us can achieve far more with our lives.
The bibliography is loaded with great books to further explore both Stoicism and the lives of the historical figures Holiday uses to show his points. This is my only complaint with the book. I have WAY too much to read now.
This is a book I wish I had in my twenties. This book is a kick in the ass. It is an inspiration. It shows what's possible and encourages one to bring forth the potentials inside us all.
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The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday
Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2019
Keep Calm and Carry On. Easy to put on a bumper sticker, harder to do. This small book will help you. Based on Stoic ideas of Marcus Aurelius and Seneca, the author makes the case that ancient philosophy can help post-modern, pre-apocalypse dwellers like you and me.
The choice is yours: panic and be blocked by obstacles, or step back, take a good hard look, and figure a way around them. The wisdom isn’t new; the book starts by pointing out Marcus Aurelius himself condensed the thoughts of earlier writers. The chapters, divided into three main headings – Perception, Action, and the Will, are small, pithy bites accessible to use as a ‘daily devotional’ for rational thought.
5 stars
An Essay On Conquering Adversity
Reviewed in the United States on September 9, 2017
This book will gust a wind of self-empowerment into your lungs. In a world where young people are riddled with doubt and self-pity - "The Obstacle is The Way" urges self-reliance, internal fortitude and the construction of a stoic iron will. I can't think of a better book to gift to a young person entering college or the business world.
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Great book that may lead you to many others
Reviewed in the United States on December 5, 2017
The Obstacle is the way
Holiday's simple dialogue and compelling stories launched my interest in the Stoics. Having a business, rather than liberal arts background, I was not exposed to the philosophers. Ryan's contemporary application to the ancient works made them interesting. I have since purchased and read more works by the Stoics and the readings have impacted my daily life. I especially enjoyed Mediations of Marcus Aurelius and Letters from a Stoic by Seneca. Such diversity in thought yet synergy in perspective. This book also led me to Tim Ferris “4- hour work week” which I have read three times since reading this book. Great book to read on perspective of life.
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A coworker recommended I read this
Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2016
The Obstacle Is The Way takes perseverance to a whole new level. A coworker recommended I read this, and I’m awfully glad I did. I think this book can give all of us a much better perspective on the challenges we face and can be life-changing for folks who feel they're stuck in their current situation. Some of my favorite quotes from the book are:
"Obstacles are not only to be expected but embraced. These obstacles are actually opportunities to test ourselves, to try new things, and, ultimately, to triumph."
"You’re always fighting uphill. Get used to it and train accordingly."
"Persistence: Everything directed at one problem until it breaks."
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The greatest of the great leaders in every field throughout history ...
Reviewed in the United States on July 5, 2017
The Obstacle is the Way: The timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph by Ryan Holiday should be a compulsory read and then, apply the tools within it. The greatest of the great leaders in every field throughout history have lived and succeeded as a result of the strategies and tools shared in this book.
People as far back as the Ancients are still being used as examples of brilliance, kindness, and caring, good ruling and justice. To this very day they are being quoted.
Secondary schools should introduce the material in this book as a compulsory subject. It will help removed the floundering and boredom that the younger generation is experiencing as a result of the easy availability of information which has taken the wonderment of self-discovery away from them.
Adults and children will see a renewed self-worth and a reason for being. they will see that their life is of their making and not to depend on others fulfilling their aspirations. The entitlement syndrome will be obliterated when people become aware of the power for good that they have within. It's based on the ancient concepts of Stoicism.
A must-read - without a doubt - and then apply what you have read.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 18, 2021
FANTASTIC READ!! A quick quote from this book to get you going;" The philosopher and writer Nassim Nicholas Taleb defined a Stoic as someone who “transforms fear into prudence, pain into information, mistakes into initiation and desire into undertaking.” It’s a loop that becomes easier over time. To be sure, no one is saying you’ve got to do it all at once. Margaret Thatcher didn’t become known as the Iron Lady until she was sixty years old. There’s a saying in Latin: Vires acquirit eundo (We gather strength as we go). That’s how it works. That’s our motto."
Embrace your life battles with enthusiasm
Reviewed in the United States on February 18, 2017
What you read mimics the mindset of the person at times. Maybe it helps you build that mental muscle for the hard tasks ahead in life.
Presently, I am reading a good book titled:”The Obstacle Is The Way” by Ryan Holiday. Books might not change you they reveal you in some ways.
Building a business is hard work, long hours and stressful. Beyond those issues the thoughts of where you should even be trying to run a business are issues that manifest in our minds.
Holiday’s book is a short walk through history about crazy hardships other people encountered along the way building a business; building a dream; and trying to accomplish something truly hard.
What do I love about his book? Just the hardcore reminders that through hardships you build a better you. I have colleagues that have spent their whole existence looking for a short cut; the man on the white horse; and the get rich quick propaganda.
Holiday makes the struggle seem romantic, authentic and he won’t leave you feeling alone in your quest to make it at whatever goal you might take in life.
It has been a good read of how to overcome issues in life by learning about how we perceive hardships is our choice for how we will attach hardships.
In closing, embrace your obstacles with an energized zeal because it might be the fighter you need to confront in life to make you better for life.
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Wanted to hate it. Couldn't put it down. Loved it...
Reviewed in the United States on April 18, 2017
There are a handful of books that mislead me to believe that I am really going to dislike them; then in a flash, something reaches me at a level that elevates the book to a lifetime keeper. Holiday's book is one of that group. Three pages in, I had no intention of finishing. The prose wandered aimlessly and had the feel of a hundred bumper stickers compressed into a book format. Holiday found the magic words that make this book resonate, and now I am contemplating a bulk purchase for my children, my co-workers, my Scouts, random people on the street... A chapter a day might be a good year round exercise.
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Excellent intro/summary of Stoicism for modern living
Reviewed in the United States on May 7, 2021
An excellent distillation of the most salient practices of Stoicism as applied to modern life. This ancient practical philosophy has been revived over the nearly las two decades and has generated books, groups and conferences. Among those I have read this is one of the most efficient presentations of the Stoic program. The chapters are short and digestible and include no fat. The biggest takeaway is that life always has obstacles and the best way to deal with them is accept them and then work through, nuder or over them or even be prepared to not move them and learn a lesson from hat.
Great way to reprogram your mind.
Reviewed in the United States on May 18, 2020
Who has not come across obstacles in either professional or personal life? We all struggle with these obstacles and sometimes we get too narrow minded on fixing it that we miss the bigger picture. This book was great to break that norm thinking and helped me starting viewing things from a different light. There is an opportunity in each obstacle and it is up to us to find that opportunity and leverage it. I know you will enjoying either reading it or listen to it.
Short book, packed with historical insights and examples. Life (not just work). game changer.
Reviewed in the United States on July 22, 2019
This book has changed every aspect of my life. Two years since purchasing this wonder book, I view hardships differently, evaluate and break down issues that used to be massive walls into smaller, scaleable mounds, or learned to look for other routes instead of banging my head against the one, proverbial shut door needlessly focusing on what won't work, rather than steppinf back and bringing into focus the infinite other possibilities. Read this small, pocket sized book and prepare to get your mind blown.
The most important book I have ever read
Reviewed in the United States on March 4, 2019
I read this book at least once a year in order to reset and reframe my approach to my life's goals and struggles. This book is stoicism condensed down to its actionable precepts and made memorable with stories of well known people throughout history that have put them into practise. There is no one master "key" to solving your life's challenges. It is different for everyone. And if anyone claims to have your specific key then they are lying. But if there ever was a key maker. It is this book.
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Let not your heart be troubled...
Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2018
This book is for people who want to succeed. It is for those who have goals and the courage to do whatever’s necessary to reach those goals. Holiday is well read and effectively uses famous examples to make his points. He is thoughtful and practical. He has both failed and succeeded. And he knows how to talk to us about both situations.
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Great First Book to Begin Your Self-Discovery Journey
Reviewed in the United States on September 9, 2021
I read this book after listening to a Tim Ferris podcast interview with Ryan Holiday. It was at the perfect moment. My brother had passed and I was figuring out how to be a happier individual in addition to a career transition. It was perfect, absolutely perfect. I believe I've listened to the audible version more than 7x while walking to work. That led me to listening to most of Ryan's books and steered me to philosophy in a big way. I have gifted this book the most to many friends and clients.
Reviewed in the United States on November 17, 2020
Much like Stephan Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Ryan Holiday’s The Obstacle is the Way provides a refreshingly different perspective on life. The entire book focus on changing your perspective about circumstances as the key mechanism to embrace personal proactivity and take action. If applied, the content in this book has the potential to help you change your trajectory in life or accelerate your current path.
Easily Digestible, Unintimidating, Primer on Stoicism!
Reviewed in the United States on August 12, 2020
Some folks are put off when I suggest reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, despite their expressed interest in learning more about stoicism after we talk. I recommend this book to those people, and others, because it is approachable and easy enough to comprehend that implementing the book's suggestions seems likely. I would have no hesitation in recommending this book to middle-school or high school students; such a book can be life changing.
Reviewed in the United States on May 23, 2021
I am glad that I stumbled across Ryan on YouTube which lead me to his body of work. This book has changed my life in a great way. I practiced this and believed like this but this book has opened my eyes to new practices and new techniques. Time to pick up a few more of Ryan’s books. I know that they will be just as enlightening. This book is written for anyone who wants to become a better stronger more capable human! Great job Ryan!
Reviewed in the United States on September 13, 2020
When we are our own worst enemies, when we lack direction, when we feel overwhelmed, when we are resistant to change, the path forward requires an acknowledgement of obstacles....whether of our own making or from external forces. Based on ancient wisdom traditions, Holiday creates a framework to help the reader rationally work through things, like unforseen circumstances or wrong thinking, that hinder our progress.
There are few books I keep close; adding The Obstacle is the Way to that short list.
Great introduction to practical Stoicism
Reviewed in the United States on October 30, 2021
I started following The Daily Stoic because of this book. This book is one of the best holistic approaches to solving obstacles in your life. By telling you ideas on how to percieve them, act on them, and how to endure. Easy to read and well written, I found out there's an action guide on The Daily Stoic website and I'll be getting that too. But just getting this book, reading, taking notes, and making adjustments in your life and your behavior can, in my opinion, really better your life.
Reviewed in the United States on July 21, 2020
I love Ryan Holiday's podcast - Daily Stoic. Ryan's podcast has been extremely inspirational in my life. I would say life changing. He has turned me towards stoicism and I'min - its now how I roll.
I read the Obstacle is the Way and it is good. I probably would say it is excellent, but I had heard all of it before on his podcasts so reading it was redundant for me.
I would highly recommend reading the book.
I will be reading his others.
Gives practical, concrete advice and steps to take!
Reviewed in the United States on June 13, 2020
What I really liked was then just the advice, but it gave real life examples and actual steps to take. The idea is simple-look at obstacles as an opportunity to improve the situation. It is a simple idea, but hard to do. Holiday gives advice that isn't just have a positive outlook kind of stuff, but practical things you can do to come out of a situation better than you thought. I am already using this approach to try and improve some things at work, my personal life, etc...I feel like I look at the world in a different way.....
Reviewed in the United States on November 7, 2021
We live in a very difficult time full of challenges. This book will help you deal with those problems. It gives you steps to take to solve problems and change your perspective on life itself. It even uses real life examples based on historical figures to prove that these strategies work. It’s practical and useful. I highly recommend this book to anyone serious about improving their mindset, perception, and life.
Reviewed in the United States on August 9, 2018
The Obstacle is the Way is an excellent, insightful book that motivates one to push through adversity and take a new perspective on situations.
Holiday takes key aspects of the stoic philosophy and blends them with stories of famous individuals that have faced arduous situations, pressed through them, and ended up becoming stronger for it.
It is by no means a comprehensive tome of the principles of Stoicism, but rather a brief introduction to several of the basic precepts as espoused by Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, Seneca and others and how beneficial they can be in our daily lives.
I highly recommend this book to anyone in leadership or facing arduous circumstances. Read this book with an open mind and look for ways in which to implement the concepts in your daily life.
Excellent Book! Loaded With Insights and Wisdom!!
Reviewed in the United States on May 20, 2017
Thank you Ryan for bringing this book to the world! Very well written!
This book is so important and it really hit home for me. I struggle with external circumstances. I struggle not only with mistakes I made and failures from the past, but also with how I react to these failures. This is an ongoing battle for me, and I'm sure it is for others too.
This book gave me clarity and perspective. It's is loaded with insights and stories of leaders throughout history who have thrived in spite of failures they've endured and circumstances out of their control. Ryan digs deep, sharing what he learned from these leaders - how they respond internally to external problems to create a life for the better.
The history and philosophies shared in this book are fascinating. The lessons are simple, direct, and actionable.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 15, 2021
While the lessons of the stoic can be difficult to apply, because so many of us find ourselves frustrated at life and are conditioned to wallowing in endless complaint, bit by bit, we must try to apply the lessons in this book. We devote too much mental energy to situations we cannot change. We must condition ourselves to change the way we think and manage our lives. This is a good start.
A Great Read to Change Your Perspective
Reviewed in the United States on May 7, 2021
I stumbled across this book looking for professional intuition but what I found is a concept to live in an ideal manner. At any point in life, whether changing careers or facing adversity, you can take something away from every part of this book.
I had heard of James Stockdale and found what I read here very intriguing. You will find a short on him here.
I have been reading this book over the course if 72 hours and since then made some changes in my life that I know will last forever, including applying back to college to finish my degree. I don't know what you will take from this but I know you will find something inspiring.
Reviewed in the United States on October 2, 2017
This book covers one of the greatest tools in Stoic philosophy. Seeing each difficulty, no matter how vexing, as an opportunity to become more and do more. The book's layout is as practical as the philosophy it contains. Short chapters, each illustrating a single point, keep the book from being a lecture. It reads as more like a series of conversations than a lecture from a cumbersome textbook. I enjoyed the style as well as the practicality of the wisdom. It was an easy read, and I find new ways to apply the lessons every day. I highly recommend this as an introduction to Stoicism, but also as a stand-alone guide to living a better, more thoughtful, more proactive life.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 18, 2020
Great work on a subject that can a will change how anyone who choose to face obstacles in a more positive manner. Most of life’s challenges are a point of view, this book will provide a guide of building your personal way forward using the power of a positive view. This book is now on my personal “ must read” list.
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Best Intro to Stoic Philosophy
Reviewed in the United States on October 28, 2018
Yes, there are better books and at times it does feel like a self-help book, which can be cringe-worthy. I personally have read a lot of the self-help genre and this book was the one that I discovered during a valley in my life.
I read it 4 times that year and memorized passages and even read about the people and writers that it mentions.
I am buying it again today because I'm sending it to two of my good friends after a conversation with them. This book at the very least will remind you of some timeless common-sense principles, and at the very best introduce you to a philosophy that is practical and important to learn.
I wish I had a picture of the book, but it looks like I've gifted my copy that I highlighted and wrote notes in. Looks like i'll be getting 3 copies today.
The most important book I've ever read
Reviewed in the United States on March 5, 2020
This is, without a doubt, the most helpful and important book I have ever read. It provides so many critical pieces of wisdom that are time-tested through centuries. Ryan Holiday makes complicated text very easy to understand and engaging. There were so many times I read passages and was left speechless. Timeless wisdom for a modern person. I will be purchasing multiple copies of this book to give out to friends and family. I already know that I will be rereading this book for the rest of my life. Help your mind, body and soul by purchasing this book.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 25, 2020
I love how Ryan Holiday takes the work of the stoic philosophers and translates it to easy-to-understand language. He makes it accessible for anyone to understand. I often recommend this book to friends. It's one of my favorites.
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Facing a difficult challenge at home, school, or at work? This book is exactly what you need.
Reviewed in the United States on June 14, 2015
This is a relatively short book, and that's one of the reasons why I like it so much. Too many authors repeat the same points over and over again, taking two long chapters to make a point that could have easily been explained in two paragraphs. As a busy guy, I immediately appreciated the concise chapters that brings up the point on the first page and elaborates on it just enough to hit the point home.
And as for the content? Well, let's just say that on a number of occasions, I caught myself thinking "Wow, this changes everything." I almost never finish reading the books I buy (because they usually fall short of expectation), but I read every single page of this one like a desert survivor drinks water. I also don't typically re-read books, but for this one I will gladly make an exception.
This is my #1 book recommendation for anyone facing challenges and would like to change their perspective (and thus actions) on how to deal with them. Without a doubt, this book deserves 5-stars.
Making timeless, important concepts accessible
Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2017
In distilling the work of ancient and "modern" stoic philosophers & thinkers, the dude who broke down the link economy almost a decade ago has provided a guidebook (né, cliffs notes) for the ultimate program of introspection, analysis & self-improvement.
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A manual for everyday living rooted in the principles of Stoicism.
Reviewed in the United States on December 13, 2016
Ryan Holiday’s The Obstacle Is the Way is a superb primer on the Stoic principles. For one thing, at 224 pages, it is less than half the size of the last book I read on the same theme, Derren Brown’s superb Happy. This is by no means a bad thing, however, for while Brown’s book delves into the history of Stoicism and man’s eternal search for that which will make us happy, Holiday’s is a quicker, lighter read, but one that packs a hell of a punch.
The gist of the book is that if one applies the principles of Stoicism carefully and mindfully, then no matter what happens (good, bad, or indifferent) then it becomes possible to deal with the highs, lows, and plateaus of life with equal poise and calmness. Obstacles, Holiday posits, represent opportunity, and should be welcomed rather than feared, for they offer us chances to grow and become more than we currently are.
There’s nothing really new here, and I say that without being critical. The tenets around which Holiday builds his case are thousands of years old, being drawn primarily from Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius, among others. The great success of the book is its ability to distill these concepts down into usable, everyday ways of thinking which can benefit each and every one of its readers, if they are disciplined enough to apply them to their own lives. It points out (quite correctly) that the problems faced by the average Greek or Roman citizen were, at their core, fundamentally no different than the ones that vex us today, for they are based upon the same old negative emotions: fear, jealousy, anxiety, greed, a desire for celebrity, and so forth. Marcus Aurelius, one of Rome’s five so-called “Good Emperors,” wrestled with all these issues and more on a daily basis, and used Stoicism in order to successfully conquer them…and himself. There are very good reasons why Meditations is still read so widely (and re-read so frequently) today. I have returned to the book regularly ever since I discovered it as a teenager, and will probably do so for as long as I live. These truths are timeless, and invaluable.
Holiday refers to the Stoic philosophy as “an operating system for living,” which seems very apt in this digital day and age. If that is indeed the case, then The Obstacle Is the Way serves as an introductory manual for that operating system, a primer that helps one get to grips with how it works. Some of the complexity and nuance may be left out or abstracted, but the thrust of it is covered succinctly, with plenty of easily understandable contemporary examples to clarify things.
I highly recommend this book to anybody who could use a little help in dealing with the stresses and strains of everyday living…and at the end of the day, isn’t that all of us?
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A phenomenal book that can change your life
Reviewed in the United States on September 19, 2021
I’m a big fan of Holiday and his work in the field of Stoicism. This book is a very accessible and applicable book on explaining the realities of life, using stoicism. There will be times in life where this book is perfect, it was that time in my life currently. The book shares great, timely examples of people’s lives and how they applied stoicism. Get this book and read it often.
Brilliant Wisdom, Entertainingly Presented
Reviewed in the United States on June 19, 2017
Having read other books by this author, I was mightily pleased this one lived up to his usual high standard. Breezily written, with plentiful quotes and anecdotes to keep the reader's interest, it's lessons go down in such an entertaining manner, I was sorry when it ended.
Pretty basic life wisdom here, but that doesn't make in any less valuable as these are truths powerful enough to bear repeating.
Highly recommended.
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Great book on how to deal with obstacles.
Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2018
I give this book five stars. I give it five stars because Ryan holiday gives great insight on how to control your emotions in any situation. He also give good examples of people in the past and future, when they had obstacles in there way, they stayed level headed and face the problem head on. He also explain how people need to setup out there comfort zone and take risk. He said your going to rejection sometimes but never give up. I recommend this book to people who are letting external things control their emotions.
Holiday uses some great examples of people throughout history that are known as ...
Reviewed in the United States on December 25, 2016
Highly motivational read. It actually led to me taking more action with my ventures, which is the purpose of the book. Therefore, a well-deserved five stars from me. Holiday uses some great examples of people throughout history that are known as geniuses, but the truth is that their genius was perseverance. That's just one example of much information that can be gleaned from this read. If one of your goals in life is to strive for more, then it's highly recommended.
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Practical guidance in a imperfect world
Reviewed in the United States on January 13, 2020
Reading this is a great way to start 2020. I got "The Daily Stoic" last year and was familiar with the concepts in "The Obstacles is the Way." It gave more examples of how to apply Stoic philosophy when facing obstacles. I will be reading the other books by Ryan Holiday. In an uncertain world, I am getting the knowledge and tools to live a good life and not wander aimlessly.
Reviewed in the United States on January 15, 2017
Enjoyed the heck out of this one. I've gotten in the habit of giving one book to a group of friends every year around Christmas. This book was this year's.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 15, 2020
This book was an excellent, quick, distilled read. A valuable primer on mindset - specifically how to maintain a positive mental outlook when the world seems like nothing but obstacle after setback after challenge. If you can learn how to view every obstacle as an opportunity - even necessary - for growth, then obstacles begin to have worth. They are required. They are the way forward.
We lift heavy weight to grow muscle. We negotiate a bad deal to enhance our negotiation skills. We climb mountains of deadlines, navigate forests of failures, and dive oceans of bad information - to get better. Use it.
What stands in the way becomes the way.
this is a great introduction. I've read on other reviews their distaste ...
Reviewed in the United States on May 15, 2018
For someone who isn't well read on Stoicism, this is a great introduction. I've read on other reviews their distaste for Holiday's writing style, but I think for someone who isn't very knowledgeable about the subject it gives a very approachable introduction to the philosophy as a whole. I don't see this as a book that's meant to replace the ancient books, it's meant to introduce you to them and encourage you to delve deeper into this subject. I think when looking at the book this way, you can see that it does a great job of it's objective.
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The journey is an essential part of the experience. Don't discount it.
Reviewed in the United States on December 13, 2020
People keep looking to the end goals as if they are the be all and end all, but the means also shape who you are coming through to the other side. The cliche quote "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" holds true, and the author expounds on that theme too. Learn to understand and appreciate the trials that come your way, as whether you succeed or not in the end it's knowing that you gave it your best that should color you happy and content.
Reviewed in the United States on October 20, 2016
This book was an easy and quick read. The chapters are short so in this age of quick and dirty the book fits in with real life. Even more, the book provokes you to think differently and act differently. Don't wait to read this. Pick it up now and start reading about the great men and women who came before you so you can realize you're not alone in your struggles nor are those struggles insurmountable.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 6, 2020
What a great book! Ryan Holiday is no-nonsense, direct and concise as he conveys precisely that the OBSTACLE is the path to lessons learned, accomplishments achieved, and history made. It’s reminder that failures can be a GOOD thing. I already loaned it out but I will reread at a slower pace. I devoured it the first time.
Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2017
I've followed Ryan for the past couple of years. His blog is a way to reconnect with what is lost in the world today: unfiltered reasoning. Ryan is a straight shooter and this book does not disappoint. Ive always wondered what if I accepted and leaned into painful moments and discomfort. Who would I be? Who would I become? A breakup a couple of years ago taught me that I was not "special." It taught me humility. The obstacle is not only the way but it shows us the way. The obstacle gives us a new way forward, accepting life as it comes; teaching us to say "all is well with my soul."
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Reviewed in the United States on July 30, 2020
I read this book in January 2020 and had no idea how relevant it would be by March. The world has changed presenting new obstacles. Many people will see these obstacles (COVID-19, quarantines, etc.) and throw up their hands in disgust, even quit on life, goals, dreams. What "Obstacle..." will show and teach you is that there is opportunity in the obstacle if you know how to look for it.
Ryan Holiday is the expert in relating Stoicism to our modern world, and this book opened my eyes in the midst of a pandemic. There's much to learn and gain from reading "The Obstacle is the Way" but one of the biggest lessons learned is that life will tell things via Obstacles. Are you willing to lesson?
Elegant philosophy for the real world.
Reviewed in the United States on May 13, 2018
The author brings philosophy back to what it was supposed to be: a guide for living, no matter what is going on. The title reflects his goal: to teach you how to look at even unpleasant and challenging parts of life and see opportunity. Not necessarily materialistic opportunity, but a way of looking reality in the face and using it to get better, stronger, and smarter, and maybe turn a challenge into your next big success. I loved it.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 26, 2021
I have gifted this book the most of any other. It's brilliant. If you've been feeling like something is not right with you as you turn 40 or 50. This is the dose you require. Then read Ryan's other subsequent books because it will set you on the course you were looking for but didn't have the courage to act.
A Must Read for Personal Develop
Reviewed in the United States on March 21, 2021
Ryan Holiday has such a wonderful grasp of stoic philosophy! This book is very easy to understand for anyone and should be foundational for anyone who is attempting to achieve at the highest levels. This is a book that one must keep handy to read regularly!
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Perfect For Practically Changing your Life
Reviewed in the United States on December 31, 2020
One of the best books that I’ve read in a while. This is a noBS approach to making yourself better. The lessons from the stoic philosophers ring true here and there are many points that can help anybody improve themselves. This is not a book about fairytales or rainbows but simply a way to overcome life‘s obstacles by learning from them and making them “the way“
Easy to read.Audiobook waters down the experience of the book
Reviewed in the United States on August 16, 2018
5/5 for the book itself. I purchased the audio book and the book itself was very insightful. I enjoyed the anecdotes Holiday included. It made the principles of stoicism clearer also he introduced me to a few people Ive neverd of before!
4/5 stars for the recording itself. It sounded like he was reading off a paper rather than somone telling you a story. His tone was very flat and the whole story sounded one note. It definitely watered down the experience of hearing the story.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 14, 2019
This book is a great starting point for anyone looking to learn and act stoically in the face of adversity, and to think in terms of conquering obstacles, rather than hiding from them. There’s also a comprehensive reading list at the end to further explore this topic as the beginning of a lifelong journey, I can’t wait to get started!
The Obstacle Is The Way Will Be Life Changing
Reviewed in the United States on May 23, 2020
After hearing that Ryan Shazier ( Steeler Player) used this book for inspiration in his quest to return to the NFL, I became intrigued. Reading the book not only confirmed for me that my life was indeed on the right path, it gave me incentive to understand Stoicism on a deeper level. No book I have read in the last ten years has had such an impact on the course of my life. The reward of the journey is in the struggle with adversity, the obstacle is indeed the way!
This has been my nightly read for inspiration
Reviewed in the United States on May 23, 2020
I was recommended this book through a website I follow. When I bought it, I was transitioning from living in Tanzania half of my life to moving back to the US now unemployed, a single mom and living with my family. While my situation has actually become "worse" due to Covid19 hitting shortly after this big transition, this book with its short well written chapters were a perfect end to my days. The author helps you see that you are "worthy of your challenges" because they help you become stronger and actually catapult you ahead. This is an inspirational read that I'd highly recommend.
Reviewed in the United States on December 20, 2016
If I had the money I'd buy a copy of this book for nearly every person on the planet. We've gotten crazy soft. (Just look at the things people are whining about on Facebook these days.
I think he goes a bit far in saying, "But don’t worry, you’re prepared for this now, this life of obstacles and adversity." Yeah... And that doesn't quite happen because you've read a book, any more than joining a gym makes you a workout God. Ya gotta get in there and do the work...but this certainly gives one a roadmap to do so.
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Epic, a book that is a must have!
Reviewed in the United States on September 3, 2017
A must read if you are serious about changing your life for the better. My greatest take away amongst many? Philosophy is about actions.
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Ryan does a great job at portraying this ancient philosophy in a way ...
Reviewed in the United States on April 20, 2017
As an avid student of stoicism, Ryan does a great job at portraying this ancient philosophy in a way that makes it more applicable today than ever before. I've heard Tim Ferriss say that he uses Stoicism as an operating system to guide his decisions in everyday life, and I'm in the process of doing the same. The more you practice, the more reflex it becomes.
Read this book if you want to step above your emotions and get to the root of your most empowered response to any given situation.
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Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2019
This book has helped transform my life and placed me on a journey to learn more about stoicism and this very positive approach to living and making the most out of life ... regardless of our circumstances. I'd highly recommend to every one, but especially anyone going through rough times or doubting their purpose in life. I'd also recommend reading the many sources that are identified throughout the book such as the writing of Marcus Aurelius and the teaching of Epictetus.
One of my favorite books of the year so far
Reviewed in the United States on July 17, 2017
One of my favorite books of the year so far. A wonderful read and introduction to stoicism philosophy from a practical, use it in your daily life manner (and appropriately not in a rah rah kind of way). Tech CEOs might want to read Ben Horowitz's Hard things about Hard Things right after this. Never having read the root philosophies (e.g. "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius) has now jumped up to top of the list for next reads. The Tim Ferris podcast at the end of the audio book is also a winner. Thanks to the author's tip on the classic Robert Greene books which also landed on the to read list.
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One of my most important books
Reviewed in the United States on June 23, 2021
This book has become a way of life for me! I haven't read much on stoicism before and I gotta say that I really liked it. The philosophy compliments Buddhism because they're both practical philosophies. I even broke down this book and developed a system for analyzing obstacles in my life, shifting my perspective, then creating a strategy to overcome. Changed my life.
A relevant, actionable book for a very real problem
Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2014
Things haven't worked out for what I thought would be a relatively easy venture. It has been a sobering conclusion and I nearly gave up all hope and desire to move on. This book came along at the right time and opened my eyes to several facts: (1) it ain't over just because I've failed thus far in my venture ... I need to ACT more after adjusting my perception, & (2) obstacles I'm facing are opportunities, not life crushers.
Will this stuff make me successful? I don't know. I can only try. What it has done for me in the 2-3 days I've spent reading is give me hope. Hope that this stuff is relevant and will see me through, whether successful or not.
And actionable? Yes. I highlighted the last sentence of nearly every chapter because it is motivating and actionable.
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Inspiring wisdom and teaching!
Reviewed in the United States on May 21, 2021
Another great book by Ryan. My third I believe.
A great reading to read again and again over time, to remember we're mortals, we have a purpose, we have a path to walk, and it will be full of obstacles, because they are the way.
Enjoy!
Excellent Inspirational Book - Featuring Stoicism but not directly about Stoicism
Reviewed in the United States on April 30, 2017
This book is powerful and practical inspiration any time I am down and struggling in the mud or riding the mountain highs of daily life. I like advice mixed with inspirational biographical anecdotes that show others in struggle and what they did to overcome, but this is more. Many of the chapters provide "life practice", things you can do to sharpen yourself in preparation for day to day living.
If you are looking for something focusing on the practice of stoicism try the blog "How to be a Stoic, an evolving guide to practical Stoicism for the 21st century.
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The right book at the right time
Reviewed in the United States on July 19, 2020
I purchased this book a while ago, and added it to my to-read list. One day I opened my Kindle to find this book opened somehow. It was exactly the philosophy I needed to get through this tumultuous time. Fun and thought provoking, Ryan Holiday delivers the essential pieces of Stoicism and makes accessible in our modern world.
Our world is not coming apart. That's just an obstacle.
Reviewed in the United States on December 19, 2020
I studied philosophy in my undergrad and was always fascinated by the Stoics, which I had always seen as Western Philosophy's version of Buddhism without the metaphysics. I didn't always agree with Holiday's applications, but his observations were spot on, especially in the year 2020 which has been chock full of so many damned obstacles. Highly recommend.
Mike Kimmel Monologues for Teens
Reviewed in the United States on July 5, 2019
You can't go wrong with Ryan Holiday's work. He writes in an accessible, breezy style that readers of all levels will enjoy. It's a compelling and easily digestible introduction to stoic philosophy. Ryan Holiday makes it readily applicable to the challenges of everyday life – exactly as the stoic philosophers intended. Very highly recommended.
Very timely read during the COVID epidemic
Reviewed in the United States on July 31, 2020
In these challenging times it is important to put all of our challenges into the proper perspective. It is easy to be overwhelmed by the events that are taking place and impacting our daily lives such as fear, under or unemployment, sickness and depression. The Obstacle is the Way flips the narrative and guides us to a pathway to take advantage of the situation than to be crushed by it.
Well done!
One of my favorite business books
Reviewed in the United States on July 10, 2018
One of my favorite business books. I use lessons from this author and this book almost every day in work and outside of work. I highly recommend this book as well as Ryan Holiday's email reading list where he makes other book recommendations. I've gifted The Obstacle is the Way to a dozen people and they've all loved it.
Ego is the Enemy is tee'd up and next on my list.
An easy read which is densely packed with wisdom about living
Reviewed in the United States on January 1, 2022
Written by a young man who is indeed wiser than his time on Earth can explain. While he is incredibly gifted, it is clear that he understands the daily hardship of being alive.
The book itself is incredibly dense with very valuable knowledge gathered from many sources across many centuries. For anyone who wants to improve their life, but feels it's just too hard to continue trying, I recommend reading this. For anyone who makes purchasing decisions based solely on female role models being represented, keep shopping. For everyone else, this book is a keeper.
Bravo.
Insightful and possibly life changing
Reviewed in the United States on May 19, 2014
I must admit that I did not initially expect to get much from this book. By the end of a relatively concise but sufficiently deep discussion (for the layperson) on the key tenets of the Stoic philosophies and practitioners including Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, Epictetus and many others, I found myself enjoying the book more and more, and I was honestly disappointed to reach the end. I'm not suggesting that the book is short (I finished it in 6 to 8 hours over several days). It is conversely an ideal length which leaves the readers wanting more.
I feel that this book is the ideal introduction to stoicism. But more to the point, the philosophical underpinnings of the book are woven into a contemporary and practical discussion on overcoming life's numerous challenges. For those readers who are already familiar with stoicism, this treatment may feel elementary, but those relatively new to the topic, or for those looking for practical applications, I think this book is worthy of your close consideration.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 10, 2019
I've learned and lived the principles in this book since a wee lad. It is amazing to have it all in a nice ebook I can annotate. Communications is another speciality my dad and his family helped me home to a cloud of most that surrounds people.
Bravo! I can't wait to get back to the U.S and add a few chapters to this book then hit the press to spread the good word.